A counseling experience, an elderly woman came to counseling. To the question of what was so special, after being silent for a while, they began to cry.
After the crying was over, she told her life story,
A life story that tells and proves how man is isolated in old age.
She and her husband were government employees in Ernakulam. Happy family with everything, life without any worries, two smart kids. Home in Ernakulam city. Both children got good jobs after good engineering and got married and got married. One in Bangalore,
And one in the United States. Many years of living happily and proudly ... Her husband died five years ago. Until then, travel and visiting children alternately, in publicLife, which was active with the seed, quickly faded.
Went and stopped with the kids, but came back. Not flying to stand still. Not agreeing with their wives. The relationship with the children was limited to occasional calls. They have nothing to do with their wives or children. It is not safe to live in an oracle and now live in a flat.
The children come once a year and have been with friends ever since. No time to talk to mom, no interest. Lonely life without anyone. The bank has as much money as it wants, land and house. Kids don't want that. Their wife and children are close to the family. Going on tour with them. Spending time. Staying with. No one wants a mother. Now there are various physical disabilities and there is no one to help. I thought that the children who were brought up with so much love and affection would be with me in the last days, but they did not. There is no meeting to suckle or pamper their children. Tired of being alone, alone. With that, they began to cry.
I asked, "How about my husband's family ...?" They did not speak for a while. Then she said, her husband's house was in the countryside. Two sisters and one brother. Living close to them. They have a good relationship with each other. But it has nothing to do with me. Every woman should know what she said.Her husband's family is from the countryside. I found it difficult to adjust with them as soon as I got on. Moreover, it was thought at the time that the responsibility of the sister and the two sisters would come under their charge. From there the quarrel began. He came and stayed in his own house many times. Finally, his own family intervened and bought a house in the city itself. The husband goes home every week, and at that time,He has been arguing over whether to spend money on his mother or siblings. At that time, I thought that the money that my children and I had to enjoy was not worth wasting. Now you understand,
So what happened to the put together. Children do not need anything today. At that time, she distanced herself from her husband's family, saw them as enemies, and raised her children only close to her own family. Went on trips with them. Now the children are no longer close to them, nor are they. I was left alone with no one.
The wives of the children are reformers. They are not enough for me. Closeness to one's own family, even to children. The babies have been seen in the past. I want to pamper and love them. But it does not even fly to see. Their eyes filled with tears. I said, what we did, we will get back. Today your children are giving back what you gave to your husband's relatives. I do not know what to say to you in this matter. After being silent for a while, they got up and left. What we all need to understand is,
What we give is what we get back. In times of health and comfort, we will not be alone in the end times if we keep in touch with the spouses of the husband and wife. Those who quarrel with them for selfish gain will be left alone for the rest of their lives. This is not about anyone else, it's about you reading this sister / brother.
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March 05, 2020
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